Get over with our boyfriend or girlfriend is the hard thing for us. We had been plan our future with him or her and though that with them we will married. But, when the relationship was over we think that we will not get the same love like we have with our ex. There is some steps, tips and warning that should we do if we want to rid from our ex.
The steps to get rid from our ex are do not remembering him or her and just remember why both of you are broke up. Communication with he or she should cut of, you can erase their phone number from your phone. The last one is realizing that both of you cannot back like the first time you and he or she met.
Friends and family can also be the next steps to rid from your ex. You should not to be alone; you can hang out with your friends or your family everywhere you want. Tells to your friends or your family about your feeling to know who cares to you in this situation. Do not ask your friends or family if they met your ex in the road.
The last step is you, yourself. It is ok if you are cry until you get tired, because it will make you feel a freedom. With your broken relation, you can make yourself like what you want (sometimes you act like what your ex wants). You can press your pain and brave to see the fact of your relationship, it makes you better than before.
The tips to solve this problems are you should not make he or she as your friends because it will make them still around and you will hard to get rid from them. Believe that you will find another person to get your love. If you meet him or her, do not ask about their condition after you broke up. You should not say that you cannot forget him or her and say that you are still loved him or her.
Do not save anything about them, even their password of email or facebook. If you fell getting worse with this situation just ask some helps from your friends or family maybe. You can also get a new learning about yourself from your broke up; because not all broken relation is make you desperate, sometime make you realize that you can be better. Write a diary to express your feeling, perhaps help you not to sad anymore. To get rid from your ex maybe you can try to find another man or woman, try to build your new relationship with them. Crying in your room and get out all your sad feeling maybe helps to forget your ex.
Warnings, those are some things that you should do if you want to get over or rid from your ex. The first is keep you’re healthy, do not drinks alcohol or smoking. It is because damage your health and that is a worse idea. Even you are hated him or her so much until you want to kill them, you should not to say a worse things about them. It will make a new problem to you. When you want to talk about your ex with your friends, ask them if they want to listen. But, when they do not want, just appreciate them with not talk about your ex.
Think that you are the only one who ever have broken heart; you should move on and do not try to come back to the past time. Do not follow your ex life, just like a detective. Know the new news about them, but it just makes you worse. Do not avoid seeing, listening, or talking about something that will remain you from him or her. That is life.
Doing something that you like, try to get busy and it will make you do not think about him or her all the time. If your ex said the bad things about you just ignore it and act that nothing happened. That a big mistake if you still checking your ex facebook, it makes you remain about he or she. The last is you should find the new one, try to love again.
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